A Softer Way to Move Through the Holidays This Year
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A Softer Way to Move Through the Holidays This Year

The holidays can bring joy, grief, and stress all at once. Explore gentle ways to care for yourself, set boundaries, and reduce emotional overload. Therapist insights for a calmer, more compassionate holiday week.

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When You’re the One Carrying Everyone’s Stress
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When You’re the One Carrying Everyone’s Stress

Are you the emotional anchor for your family? Learn how to stop carrying everyone’s stress, set healthier limits, and find calm. There’s still time to join the free Holiday Peace Plan session on December 17.

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When the Holidays Feel Hard
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When the Holidays Feel Hard

Gratitude isn’t about pretending everything’s fine it’s about noticing small moments of light, even when things are heavy. This post explores how to practice gratitude in a way that feels real, not forced, and how it can bring a little hope when life feels messy.

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Learning to Trust Yourself Again
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Learning to Trust Yourself Again

If you’ve second-guessed every decision lately, or found yourself asking everyone else what to do, you’re not broken, you’ve just learned to doubt your own voice. In this week’s post, I talk about what it really means to rebuild trust with yourself and how to start making choices that feel true to you.

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The Myth of “Having It All Together”
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The Myth of “Having It All Together”

Ever feel like everyone else has it figured out while you’re barely hanging on? You’re not alone. Most of us are just doing our best behind the scenes. This post dives into why we chase the illusion of “having it all together” and how learning to be real (not perfect) can actually help you feel more grounded and confident in your own story.

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When Self-Criticism Becomes Your Default Voice
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When Self-Criticism Becomes Your Default Voice

Would you ever talk to a friend the way you talk to yourself? For many of us, self-criticism becomes the default voice in our heads. In this post, we’ll explore why we’re so hard on ourselves, how self-talk shapes our confidence, and practical ways to start replacing criticism with compassion.

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The Pressure to Have It All Figured Out
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The Pressure to Have It All Figured Out

Tired of hearing, “So… what’s next?” If you’re navigating big transitions, the pressure to have your whole life mapped out can feel overwhelming. In this post, I’ll unpack why this pressure hits so hard, the myth of the “perfect path,” and how to move forward without having all the answers.

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Saying “No” Without Guilt (Yes, It’s Possible!)
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Saying “No” Without Guilt (Yes, It’s Possible!)

Do you find yourself saying yes when you really want to say no? You’re not the only one. People-pleasing can leave you drained, resentful, and disconnected from your own needs. In this post, I’ll share why saying no feels so hard, how to reframe it as an act of self-respect, and simple scripts you can use to set boundaries without the guilt.

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The Comparison Trap: How Social Media Messes with Your Self-Esteem
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The Comparison Trap: How Social Media Messes with Your Self-Esteem

Ever catch yourself scrolling social media and suddenly feeling like your life just doesn’t measure up? You’re not alone. In this post, we’ll talk about why comparison is so easy to fall into online, how it impacts your self-esteem, and practical ways to step out of the trap so you can feel more grounded in your own life.

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When Your Brain Won’t Shut Off at Night
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When Your Brain Won’t Shut Off at Night

Ever find yourself lying in bed exhausted, but your mind just won’t quit? Racing thoughts, replaying the day, or worrying about tomorrow. It’s one of the most common struggles I hear about. In this post, I’ll share why anxiety loves to show up at night (and why you can’t just “turn it off”) along with practical tools to calm your mind so you can finally get the rest you need.

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