When Self-Criticism Becomes Your Default Voice
Jessica Aleman Jessica Aleman

When Self-Criticism Becomes Your Default Voice

Would you ever talk to a friend the way you talk to yourself? For many of us, self-criticism becomes the default voice in our heads. In this post, we’ll explore why we’re so hard on ourselves, how self-talk shapes our confidence, and practical ways to start replacing criticism with compassion.

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The Pressure to Have It All Figured Out
Jessica Aleman Jessica Aleman

The Pressure to Have It All Figured Out

Tired of hearing, “So… what’s next?” If you’re navigating big transitions, the pressure to have your whole life mapped out can feel overwhelming. In this post, I’ll unpack why this pressure hits so hard, the myth of the “perfect path,” and how to move forward without having all the answers.

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Saying “No” Without Guilt (Yes, It’s Possible!)
Jessica Aleman Jessica Aleman

Saying “No” Without Guilt (Yes, It’s Possible!)

Do you find yourself saying yes when you really want to say no? You’re not the only one. People-pleasing can leave you drained, resentful, and disconnected from your own needs. In this post, I’ll share why saying no feels so hard, how to reframe it as an act of self-respect, and simple scripts you can use to set boundaries without the guilt.

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The Comparison Trap: How Social Media Messes with Your Self-Esteem
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The Comparison Trap: How Social Media Messes with Your Self-Esteem

Ever catch yourself scrolling social media and suddenly feeling like your life just doesn’t measure up? You’re not alone. In this post, we’ll talk about why comparison is so easy to fall into online, how it impacts your self-esteem, and practical ways to step out of the trap so you can feel more grounded in your own life.

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When Your Brain Won’t Shut Off at Night
Jessica Aleman Jessica Aleman

When Your Brain Won’t Shut Off at Night

Ever find yourself lying in bed exhausted, but your mind just won’t quit? Racing thoughts, replaying the day, or worrying about tomorrow. It’s one of the most common struggles I hear about. In this post, I’ll share why anxiety loves to show up at night (and why you can’t just “turn it off”) along with practical tools to calm your mind so you can finally get the rest you need.

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